Poll: Can you separate sex from love?
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TheAdlerian — 4 years ago(May 03, 2021 03:06 AM)
The baby talk thing in relationships is an extension of what I was talking about regarding evolutionary psychology.
People art cute, including males, in order to show they are harmless like kids. The whole being cute is extremely important to mating.
I think that's pretty normal.
The daddy issue thing is serious business though when it comes to mental health. I makes girls want to kill themselves and hurt males that have nothing to so with their issues.
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TheAdlerian — 4 years ago(May 03, 2021 03:31 AM)
Cute does not equal tantrums.
Almost all normal couples act "cute" at times and do not act like Vulcans, lol.
You are talking about "childish" behave and I am talking about "cute" behavior.
Many couples call each other "honey" and "baby" and so forth.
Guys arent like "Now, Joanne, do not call me "honey" as a prelude to wanting your clitoris rubbed. You may simply say, I am in need of stimulation Chad, as I have had a significant tension build up due to work stress and hormones. Let's be clear about our needs and dispense with the immature behavior. Is that clear Joanne".
No one talks like that and almost no humans want to have a super dry set of interactions with the opposite sex.
Many relationships fail due to the current trend of females acting like males. It's not normal in the history of humanity.
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TheAdlerian — 4 years ago(May 03, 2021 06:19 PM)
Your responses are strange in that you don't seem to get the difference between "cute playing around" and the negative behaviors of a child.
I noted that almost no couple approaches intimacy without childlike behavior.
It is normal.
You continue to focus on general immature behavior which is not the same thing.