What are some great ways to meet single men?
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blaque108 — 9 years ago(December 31, 2016 06:55 PM)
Ok I said I didn't want to go into 2017 single but it look like I will be single again unfortunately. Anyways, in 2017 I will be 35 and for once I hope to find love, yes I'm a bit picky I'm trying to delete some things from list so I don't miss out on the wrong guy.
Other than that in 2016 I tried going to sites like Plenty of FIsh (my 26 year old cousin told me about that site), I tried Facebook groups for singles.nothing bunch of catfish type men with fake profiles or overseas profiles I don't trust, and I tried meetup.com where you join meetup groups and hope to find a decent single men.I went to a few meetup groups once again that didn't work out. I will still keep going to the meetup groups maybe I just haven't ran into the right dude yet. -
ItsLukeyBitch — 9 years ago(January 01, 2017 06:43 AM)
More like a great place to meet a guy to hook up than to meet a guy to date, besides there's way too many cheaters on Grindr, anyway Blaque if you look on the right place you'll have more chances of getting a boyfriend, if you want a geek go to a geek event, if you want a body builder go to gym, you can't look for apples in an orange tree and vice versa, search on the right places and you'll likely find what you're lookin for, also avoid bars, the odds of finding a decent man there are really tiny, most people that go to bars want hookups not relationships.
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ItsLukeyBitch — 9 years ago(December 31, 2016 08:57 PM)
Don't be picky, we all have a type, but it's important to be open to new possibilities, there are different kinds of beauty, i think in fact some gays end up sabotaging themselves in the dating game, some are just too picky, they'll be all like "i only date mascs" or "i only like six packed guys", that kind of thinking limits your possibilities, love is everywhere, things like race, height, weight, six packs, mannerisms and dick size(we all know there are many size queers out there) don't matter, love is beyond everything, wish you luck, i don't have a boyfriend, never had a relationship, my 18th birthday is 3 months away and i'm desperate to find love, i always say that we're just vessels that need to be fulfilled and only love can do that.
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kentry — 9 years ago(December 31, 2016 10:51 PM)
I don't blame you for being wary of catfishers online. Some 47 year old man pretended to be a 17 year old boy to lure an actual 16 year old girl to his house. He gave her his 17 year old Senior high school yearbook photo and she said,"He looked extremely dorky, but very cute." She lied to her parents and skipped school and took a plane from New York to Florida to go meet him.
When she saw him, she said,"I was shocked. This wasn't a 17 year old boy! He was a grown man who was older than my Dad!" She tried to run, but he raped and kidnapped her saying something like,"You came here to meet me, now you're stuck with me!" She ended up hostage in his house for a few days until she was able to contact her mom. Her mom got her out of his house and had him arrested for the rape and kidnap of a minor. So, you are right to be wary. You never know just who is on the other side of the monitor.
Drake is repetitive. He just raps the same thing over and over as if he is in an insane 5b4asylum!LOL:D -
kentry — 9 years ago(January 01, 2017 05:41 AM)
I didn't think you were a gay male. I was just saying I don't blame you for being wary of meeting up with people you met online.
You just might meet up with some creep who claims he is around your age only to see that he is a creepy much older than you creep. 
Drake is repetitive. He just raps the same thing over and over as if he is in an insane asylum!LOL:D -
blaque108 — 9 years ago(December 31, 2016 11:41 PM)
Wow that is scary, then men aren't as old fashioned like they used to be. By old fashioned I mean meeting out in public so you can see if they are who they say they are, plus they lazy too. Most men i been meeting to ge5b4t to know act like 1 to 2 hours is far like I live in California or something or they just want the female to come see them.
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kentry — 9 years ago(January 04, 2017 12:36 AM)
Yeah, I agree with you that it is scary. I can't imagine the terror that she felt realizing that the "17 year old boy" turned out to be a 47 year old man who was older than her dad! I can't believe that someone had the nerve to say "Technically, he didn't lie to her. He showed her a picture of himself, just his 17 year old self!" WTF! Him showing her himself at 17 knowing he is 47 is deliberate deceipt. And someone else said,"How could she not have been able to see that the yearbook picture was done 30 years ago? I mean you're telling me she couldn't tell a yearbook picture that was done in the 80's?" Well, she DID mention that he looked extremely dorky(outdated perhaps because it was an 80's picture?), in hindsight she probably thought,"That should have been my red flag that the picture was taken 30 years ago."
Drake is repetitive. He just raps the same thing over and over as if he is in an insane asylum!LOL:D -
blaque108 — 9 years ago(January 15, 2017 07:20 AM)
Wow that is crazy you was just stating your opinion. To me that stuff wouldn't matter if you vote republican that is you, and I vote democratic. That is like with religion I don't mind dating outside my race I just ask that he at least believe in God I don't care if I marry a catholic, or whatever else.
I'm starting to feel like people are getting even more picker on these dating sites, most of them are still single and they say they looking for a relationship, and don't seem like they willing to give people a chance. Yesterday I told myself I'm going to start meeting guys the old fashioned way just get out there in public sit at bars, bookstores, coffee shops if I have to. -
randy3149 — 9 years ago(January 23, 2017 02:03 AM)
I'd say out of all the dating apps I think Scruff wins. Every update is an actual update or an improvement. Jack'd's only advantage over the other apps is being able to upload more than one photo. Grindr has gone down the tubes! The new layout sucks and now you're limited even more with the types of guys you can search for. You used to be able to search by height, weight and age without a subscription and get Grindr Xtra free for a week if you created another account and now you don't get anything but Grindr's biggest problem has always been having no push notifications as a given. Every other app let's you know you have a message. And now the half the time you send a message you get it showing up in red saying it wasn't sent and I have good cell service. But somehow the guy on the other end receives the messages.
I'd say there's a wider variety on Grindr. Maybe your area just has a better selection? But when half the guys haven't been online in days or weeks it makes for a disappointing app when you're looking to get laid presently. Grindr has been far more helpful for probably everyone here as a whole. The only way you can't get laid there is if you're purposely not looking (side-eyeing a certain someone hereahem!)
In all, as shtty as Grindr has gotten over the years it's still the most popular and the biggest help to get laid quickly.
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